Before I started effectively losing weight, if i mentioned anything about being overweight, huge, or fat, I'd hear things like:
"Sure you could lose a few pounds, but you're not fat."
"Regardless of your weight, you're so proportionate that you don't hardly look overweight."
*I would then argue that my doctor (and most in the world) would classify me as morbidly obese according to my height and weight.
"That's ridiculous. You just have some vanity pounds to shed."
"Those scales for comparison are all kinds of wrong."
Well guess what?
Here's how much weight I've lost:
Fifty-five G.D. pounds. So logically, if someone had 55 pounds to lose, they must have been fat.
So... true of false? People who have 50 pounds or more of unnecessary weight are fat.
The only people who would admit I had a problem were perfect strangers. Random strangers in a check-out line mumbling "fat bitch" if I accidentally bumped them with my cart. Salesperson in the Abercrombie store suggesting I check out Lane Bryant since "We only carry normal sizes." Even random asshat guys barking at me as they drove by where I was walking on the sidewalk. Yeah, barked at. Not just once either. And not just in this state.
I mean, obviously people aren't going to walk up to their friend and be "DANG. You need to lose weight. That's ridiculous!" But when asked for a candid appraisal, I don't see why the truth wouldn't be the obvious response. Feel free to candy-coat it a bit. Don't be harsh. But don't lie. You see, discovering your deceptions only makes me doubt everything else you've ever said to me.
And as you know, most of us fat chicks don't have a lot of self-esteem to spare.